How to Pick the Perfect Engagement Ring—Without Ruining the Surprise

Proposing is one of the biggest moments of your life—and choosing the right ring is a huge part of that. But here’s the challenge: how do you pick the perfect engagement ring without tipping off your partner? At James Martin Jewelers, we specialize in helping our customers find the one—while keeping the surprise intact.

Start by noticing what your partner already wears. Are their go-to pieces yellow gold or white gold? Do they lean toward classic looks or trendier styles? These subtle clues can help steer you in the right direction. If you’re totally unsure, discreetly ask a sibling or close friend who might know their preferences—or even take a peek at their Pinterest boards (many brides-to-be have them!).

Next, think about shape and size. Do they like delicate pieces or something that makes a statement? Don’t stress about knowing everything. That’s where we come in. Our team is here to guide you through diamond shapes, ring styles, and metal types—even if you’re starting from scratch. You’ll get hands-on support, no pressure, and total confidence in your decision.

We also offer semi-mount rings, which let you choose the setting now and select the center stone later. This gives you flexibility—especially if you want to propose with a temporary diamond and let them pick their favorite later. It’s a thoughtful option that blends surprise with personalization.

The bottom line? You don’t need to be a jewelry expert. You just need a local jeweler who understands how to listen and help. At James Martin Jewelers, we’ve been helping couples take this step for decades. Let’s make your moment unforgettable.